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Day 73: : Seeking Voices That Challenge You


Ever caught yourself nodding vigorously at a social media post that perfectly aligns with what you already believe? That warm, satisfied feeling washing over you as someone articulates exactly what you've been thinking all along?

"Finally!" you exclaim internally, "Someone who bloody GETS IT!"

Well, hate to break it to you, mate, but you might be comfortably nestled in what we call an echo chamber, that cosy digital (or real-world) space where your existing views get reflected back at you with such precision that you'd think you were speaking into a canyon in the Alps.

The Confirmation Bias Death Spiral (A Bit Dramatic, But True)

According to actual research by actual scientists, we're naturally prone to something called confirmation bias our tendency to search for, interpret, and recall information that confirms our pre-existing beliefs.

A 2018 study from Yale University found that people are twice as likely to select information sources that align with their own views than those that challenge them. And when exposed to opposing views? Our brains actually work harder to counterargue and dismiss them than to genuinely consider their merits.

It's like we're hardwired to create our own personal echo chambers. Brilliant evolutionary design, that – ensuring we never have to experience the discomfort of being wrong.

In his insufferably popular book "Thinking, Fast and Slow," Daniel Kahneman explains how this bias operates largely below our conscious awareness. We don't deliberately choose to ignore contrary evidence; we simply don't register it as relevant or valid in the first place.

But here's where it gets proper concerning. These echo chambers don't just reinforce our existing beliefs – they radicalise them. When we only hear amplified versions of our own thoughts, we drift toward more extreme positions without even realising it.

Plato's Cave for the Digital Age 

Remember Plato's Allegory of the Cave? Those poor sods chained up, facing a wall, seeing only shadows and believing that's the entirety of reality?

That's us in our digital echo chambers. We're watching shadows on Facebook walls, mistaking them for the full picture of human experience and thought.

But unlike Plato's prisoners, we've chained ourselves willingly. We've chosen the comfortable shadows over the sometimes harsh light of diverse perspectives.

I caught myself doing this just last month. I'd followed a thread about National Health Insurance fund that had me fuming, absolutely seething with righteous indignation. "How could anyone be so WRONG?"

Then I realised I'd consumed seventeen consecutive posts from people who all shared identical viewpoints to mine. I hadn't engaged with a single contrary opinion. My anger wasn't righteous, it was rehearsed. I was merely practicing my outrage in a gymnasium of like-minded thinkers.

Why We're All Going a Bit Mad

Here's something unsettling from the world of psychology. Dr. Jonathan Haidt's research suggests that when we stop engaging with diverse viewpoints, we literally lose the ability to understand how other people think.

It's called "perspective-taking," and like any muscle, it atrophies without use. The less we practice understanding opposing viewpoints, the more alien, even incomprehensible, they become to us.

This creates what I call "selective empathy" the ability to deeply understand and care about the experiences of people like us, coupled with a growing inability to do the same for those who differ from us.

Philippians 2:4 reminds us: "Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others." Hard to do that when you've forgotten how to see through others' eyes, isn't it?

A Personal Challenge (Because Blog Posts Apparently Need These Now)

So here's my challenge to you (and to myself, because I'm still rubbish at this too):

This week, find one thoughtful voice that challenges a deeply held belief. Not someone abusive or trolling, but someone with integrity who simply sees the world differently than you do.

Listen not to respond, but to understand. Ask yourself: "How did this intelligent, well-meaning person arrive at such a different conclusion than mine?"

You don't have to agree. You don't have to change your mind. But you do have to engage honestly.

Because This is What We Do NOW!,,

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